'Gung Hei Fat Choi!' she uttered in her best pinyin approximation to wishing you a Happy New Year! Today marks the beginning of The Year of the Rabbit, in Chinese traditions. I spent a very happy few years as a child living in the Far East, primarily in Singapore, with a briefer excursion to Hong Kong later on.I have very vivid memories of these days, the warmth, the colours, the fragrances, the food, and especially the festivals, when at Chinese New Year, we would be given little red envelopes known as Lai See dollar or Lucky Money in Cantonese by our 'arma' ( that's my best approximation to the term used to describe the Chinese lady who worked for my parents as a nanny and housekeeper).
We had two that I recall, Qui Ki and Tan ay Lan, who I remember best. A tall elegant slender lady, whose skin was folded like leather on her hands and face, belying her relative youth, I always imagined she was at least 100; she was sage, wise and calm. We spent a considerable amount of time in her company, often ate with her, eating exactly as she did; local peasant and regional dishes. I recall dried fish and brown shrimps were great favourites of mine.
We would often visit her at the Kampung she lived in, a shanti village on the edge of the Forest, scrump Lychees and Rambutans in season. We ran wild amongst the exotic foliage, chasing brightly coloured birds, and lizards whose tails would fall off in our hands. The lizards, especially chit-chats that were often found on the walls of my parents Bungalow fascinated me. Villages like this are not seen in Singapore these days, but still to be found on the Malayan Peninsula, and I often daydream about returning one day, and reliving some of those memories.
Tan worshipped various deities, mostly Buddist type doctrine, but a mix of cultures, much of it based around ancestor worship, and the belief in the spirit world too, a convenient muddle that fitted in with her world view and faith in Nature.
One memory I cherish is based around Chinese New Year. A story she told of tying prayer ribbons to an ancient Banyan tree in the days of her youth back in China. It was as romantic and sad as the Willow Pattern Story, and many other folk tales she related to us that seemed to come from that part of the world.
We had a beautiful Frangipani tree at the front of our house, and she would encourage us to tie red ribbons, or small red lanterns to it and make a wish, whilst all around you could hear the unmistakable sound of firecrackers warding off bad spirits and welcoming the New Year. I knew it as 'The Wishing Tree'.
Such practises are still common, not only in the Far East, for just as people there tie wishes and prayers to sacred trees, we do it here too, and ribbons are attached to venerable ancient Yews, or historical landmarks such as the Glastonbury Thorn. Some times its practised as coins hammered into such 'Wishing Trees' - often huge fallen trunks covered in many hundred offerings, such as you can find along the river from Tarr Steps in Somerset; a coin is fixed into the tree, and a wish is made.
Today I tied a red ribbon to my Cherry tree ( Prunus cerifera 'nigra') encouraged by the nascent flower buds, and the bright blue sky, and made a wish on this auspicious day too; something I have not done since childhood.
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May all your wishes come true
K
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Gorgeous post Zoe....I also really hope your wish comes true. Xx
Have another friend who's now celebrating the lunar new year. It is so interesting to learn more about traditions, and see how many cultures share certain, but not all, practices. I cannot remember if I knew before about your growing up in the east. Hoping we might trade more comments about that.
Meanwhile, may I tell you that more snow is forecast for New York by this weekend. Enough is enough. Still, when I view media coverage from Egypt, our dealing with snowfalls seems very easy.
xo
I began by thinking how lovely the photo is - and that made me warm to the idea of tying ribbons to twigs.
I really enjoyed hearing about your childhood too. It would be good to read more!
Then, when you mentioned wishing wells and the Glastonbury Thorn, I went off the idea. I hadn't seen the Thorn with things tied to it until it was chopped down and put on the news. It looked undignified and sad. Coins in wells remind me of overwhelming tourism rather than true dreams.
Then I came to your wishes - and, of course, I hope your wishes come true!
I suppose it's volume. One red ribbon against a blue, blue sky is one thing. Swamping a living thing is another. Maybe that's the case with wishes too - a few inspire us; if we have too many we get miserable.
Esther
I do so hope that all your wishes come true. I've been reading your posts & love the photos. You are so lucky to have daffodils out. Ours are only just poking through.
mary x